Aww!

I just wanted to thank everyone who has left me comments! It gives me the warm fuzzies to know you guys actually read and enjoy my blog and have even discussed me at get togethers! For those of you who have no idea what I'm talking about, I apologize...please carry on!

So the single girl we were going to meet. We talked to our friends who were also invited to meet her and the did show up to the pub. She, however, did not! Big surprise. I also haven't seen her online since then either. We took a wild guess that maybe she worked at said pub and is just trying to drum up some business. Who knows!

We have also had a falling out with T and J apparently. For those of you who don't remember, T was my first girl kiss...aww. Well, it had been quite some time since we spoke with them. They were constantly ignoring us (or so it appeared) on MSN. M spoke to her once or twice briefly within the past month or so and she let him know that they were sort of lying low for a while and were with one couple exclusively, but in the same sentence told him to tell me that she missed me. Today I checked to see who had me on their "allow list" and T and J were no longer on there. So they deleted and possibly blocked us. From what I gather, she was a little jealous about us and J and B. She also deleted them off her list. I always told her she could be honest with me, but she chose the coward's way out. I would have been a little hurt if she told me they were no longer interested, but to just cut us out like that hurt even more. It's not like there are a lot of swingers around or a lot of swingers clubs in the area, so the chances of us bumping into them (hell, even on the street) is pretty high. I'm more disappointed in how she handled it than anything else.

I asked J about whether she had talked to her lately and she had (I told her how to check if she had also been deleted which she had as I mentioned above). She also told us that T asked her why they decided to fool around with us because we are immature and don't have kids (what does that have to do with anything?) and apparently we won't understand if they can't do something with us if they can't get a sitter. I was stunned!

I really hope that J isn't just being a shit disturber. It's very possible that she said something to T to make her very suddenly stop speaking to us like she did. It seems a little fishy, but I really hope that's not the case. I feel like I'm back in high school!

So unfortunately, I don't have any fun stories to share yet again. I just want the drama to stop so the fun may begin again! Our financial situation is slowly improving so we may be able to go to the club again soon for some new adventures! Being a swinger is way too expensive! hah