Insert foot into mouth...

After my last post, I decided to e-mail T, basically just telling her how I felt about being cut out without even so much as a goodbye. It wasn't nasty or anything, but I made sure she knew I wasn't happy about it at all and that she should be more courteous next time she decided to start deleting supposed friends off her list. I didn't expect to hear back from her and I told her that too. Surprisingly though I did. As it turns out, her and her husband were having some serious marital problems because of swinging so they decided it was best to get rid of MSN and deleting everyone on their list. She felt really bad about deleting us and ignoring us but like I told her, her marriage comes first. They decided to take a break at least for the summer and then maybe see how things go after that. So, I'm glad that's all cleared up. I told her not to be a stranger and she said they wouldn't because they still owed us a hot cam show! ;) Plus we still owe them a dinner.

I'm not really all that surprised they had issues. They rushed into this whole thing a lot quicker than even we did and it seemed to be all about her...she even admitted that in her email to me. They're really nice people and I'd hate for them to screw up everything because of this. At least I know now that it wasn't because she hates us something. hah!

Next weekend is J's bridal shower. I'm invited and I don't really want to go and I'm afraid I'm going to hurt her feelings saying so. Really though, we're so broke right now I can't afford to get her something nice anyway, I don't know any of her friends, they're all going to be 10 years older than me and they'll probably notice and then proceed to ask how I know her, etc. I'm so anti-social when it comes to things like this, I know I'll just be miserable going. Gah! I'm such a wuss.

Aww!

I just wanted to thank everyone who has left me comments! It gives me the warm fuzzies to know you guys actually read and enjoy my blog and have even discussed me at get togethers! For those of you who have no idea what I'm talking about, I apologize...please carry on!

So the single girl we were going to meet. We talked to our friends who were also invited to meet her and the did show up to the pub. She, however, did not! Big surprise. I also haven't seen her online since then either. We took a wild guess that maybe she worked at said pub and is just trying to drum up some business. Who knows!

We have also had a falling out with T and J apparently. For those of you who don't remember, T was my first girl kiss...aww. Well, it had been quite some time since we spoke with them. They were constantly ignoring us (or so it appeared) on MSN. M spoke to her once or twice briefly within the past month or so and she let him know that they were sort of lying low for a while and were with one couple exclusively, but in the same sentence told him to tell me that she missed me. Today I checked to see who had me on their "allow list" and T and J were no longer on there. So they deleted and possibly blocked us. From what I gather, she was a little jealous about us and J and B. She also deleted them off her list. I always told her she could be honest with me, but she chose the coward's way out. I would have been a little hurt if she told me they were no longer interested, but to just cut us out like that hurt even more. It's not like there are a lot of swingers around or a lot of swingers clubs in the area, so the chances of us bumping into them (hell, even on the street) is pretty high. I'm more disappointed in how she handled it than anything else.

I asked J about whether she had talked to her lately and she had (I told her how to check if she had also been deleted which she had as I mentioned above). She also told us that T asked her why they decided to fool around with us because we are immature and don't have kids (what does that have to do with anything?) and apparently we won't understand if they can't do something with us if they can't get a sitter. I was stunned!

I really hope that J isn't just being a shit disturber. It's very possible that she said something to T to make her very suddenly stop speaking to us like she did. It seems a little fishy, but I really hope that's not the case. I feel like I'm back in high school!

So unfortunately, I don't have any fun stories to share yet again. I just want the drama to stop so the fun may begin again! Our financial situation is slowly improving so we may be able to go to the club again soon for some new adventures! Being a swinger is way too expensive! hah

D'Oh!

Well we didn't go meet that girl. I remembered after our conversation that it's that special girl time, so we decided "why bother?". That sounds pretty mean, huh? Oops! Why be a tease though if we can't give her any fun? We had no way of getting in touch with her to cancel. Well we talked to one of our other swinger friends and apparently she invited them out tonight too, so I'm sure she won't be alone! Maybe we'll hear from them if she was for real or not! We ended up going to visit some vanilla friends of ours instead. Oh yes, apparently when you're swingers, your friends who aren't swingers are called "vanilla friends" or so we've been told! hah Nobody seems to know why, but I think it's because vanilla is "plain" or "boring". I don't know though...just because we can't sleep with all of our friends doesn't make them boring does it? hah!

Three's Company

We met up with a girl online who wants to meet us. We're supposed to go meet her at a pub near her, so if we hit it off we can go back to her place after. We haven't talked to her much and I've only seen one picture, but if it's just a pub we're going to, it's an easy enough situation to get out of. Usually we like to talk to people for a while and cam or get a few pics, but we wouldn't be going far so what the hell right? She sounds interesting and well...I hope she's not a guy...but what would a guy get out of it? "She" didn't even ask for pictures, to see my cam (even though it shows right on my MSN that I have one) or any of that, so I'm going to assume that she's for real. She warned me that she "soaks and squirts" and she said "if i'm really excited i climax as often as i'm stimulated so the more you want the more you get". Lucky bitch! hah! Could be fun?? I'll let you know what happens.

Oops??

So we were talking to J today and she was saying how her son still wasn't giving up on the whole swinger thing. Well, it turns out she has her MSN set so it automatically saves all of her conversations. Oops? I'm sure any swinger sites she's visited are all in her history too along with any pictures she may have. That poor kid is going to be scarred for life!! This is why you don't let your 14 year old kid who knows more about computers than you do, on your computer where you chat with your swinger friends and exchange dirty pics unless you know how to conceal these kinds of things! hah!

So in other news...well, I'm sorry, but I guess there really isn't any. J and B did just buy a hot tub though, so that should be fun!

If anyone actually reads this blog and you have questions, this would be a good time to ask them in my comment section and I can post them in a new post. Don't worry, you can leave annonymous messages! It's only fair if I'm annonymous too right? I have a few I've been asked on my My Space profile I may add too if I don't get any response! :P Stay tuned!